Love Songs are something people are familiar with and they have existed likely for as long as music has existed. The problem with many of them, at least in the last few decades (as of 2024) is they display toxic views of love and relationships. They display the two insecure attachment styles most often. Those attachment styles are anxious and avoidant. The anxious songs are very needy which often comes off as creepy and simping. The avoidant songs often come off as very selfish and about sleeping around and cheating and other distancing type behaviors and not healthy communication.
Since it is difficult to find healthy and lovely love songs, a list will be compiled over time.
Since there is the unhealthy music so common, a list of examples will be compiled with explanations of what makes them unhealthy so you may avoid thinking that those are what you should model your thoughts and feelings after.